Mindgames.
Why, why would anyone actually want to try and mess with someones psych like that?
You get a guy, seems lovely but seemingly really low self esteem - they shower you with compliments, make you laugh, you do everything you can to stop them putting themselves down, try and build on their self-worth, just try and make them see that they're an amazing guy - who just so happens to think you're amazing too.
And your best friend. And all your other friends. And some other girls you know too.
What is wrong in you conniving head that makes you think its ok to do that?!
Especially if you do it when a girl, for example, is in the middle of a break up, or having trouble with her boyfriend or even if she's confided in you about trust issues from a previous relationship, do you stop to think how your actions might adversely affect them?
Or another type of mindgame: you know someone likes you, but you don't want a relationship; fair enough, you make it clear. But then you don't start sleeping your way around their friendship group; especially not telling her about it! You don't get on her best friend IN FRONT OF HER! Surely a single brain cell should be saying: i value this friendship, so i'll make sure i stay away from her friends like that, and keep it on the low until she's over me. Actually think about someone else instead of staying wrapped up inside your own petty life.
And the other one that really grates on my nerves: just playing the victim for sympathy. Naivety is no excuse for messing someone around, the same way past experiences aren't. If you know something makes you behave in a certain way: BE HONEST ABOUT IT. If you have trust issues, don't be a cunt and make the person trying to get close to you have them! And most of all, don't try and work your way into their friendship group, so you'll always be there, cause it's not healthy.
Basically, a rant about the fall downs of the male sub-species. Yes i'm a small person with a lot of anger.
Girls play mindgames too: but i don't.
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