Red wine, by poolside, let's toast to the bitter end and the biggest mistake of our lives...

Looking round my room at the countless empty bottles of alcohol, i'm reminded of the past couple of days, where i have been, generally, in an inexplicably good mood.  Now i can't put my finger on why, there's a list of possible contributing factors but none stand out... which is unusual.


While doing some research following a rather interesting conversation with a friend, i came across a theory called The Robles Relationship Theory.  I'll link the website for more details, but the basic idea of how we behave around a 'crush' seems rather uncannily accurate.  Now this ties in with my other 'research': i've been contemplating the subconcious, the part that affects our lives in amounts that are inconcievable, yet, we don't generally realise it.  It's shaped by our past events, remembered emotions and reactions to situations.  The subconcious is a powerful force and a useful tool for understanding yourself - if you allow yourself to get in touch with it.  It can be a painful process, looking into the memories and reasons as to why we act they way we do or feel the way we do - it can bring back a lot of thing you thought you'd put to rest.  But if you can pull yourself through, with help if you need it, then the things you learn about yourself are astonishing and what's even better is... you can start to make some changes.


Another fact: we have a minimum of 8 'crushes' at every point in our lives, whether you're in a relationship or not.  Most of these reside in our subconcious and never surface more than that; using the Roble Theory they remain in the 'Realm of Confusion'.  Now, you have to be aware that having a 'crush/crushes' is completely natural, even if you're in a relationship.  But if you're in touch with your subconious, these 'crushes' can again help you to see what you need or want - from security and emotional support to freedom and risk.  These things can help us see what we want from life.  It also begins to give you a strange format to the people you generally like, looks wise.


Something to think about isn't it; at this point in time there are around 8 people you know that you're 'crushing' on...


http://sites.google.com/site/takielwestman/theory-basis